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You learn a lot about people when they don't get what they want from you.



I may not know a lot about many things but I do know a lot about certain things.

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After having dealt in big business and small business, trained many clients and business owners, spent countless hours in meetings and negotiations, I know enough to share on this topic.

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And here’s what I’ve learned. In this life, Attitude is EVERYTHING.

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More specifically your personal attitude to



ward others, yourself, your situation and circumstances, all of the things you do and the stuff that’s not your fault but you still take responsibility for.

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Everything.

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A poor attitude hinders progress and never solves problems because it’s too busy pointing fingers instead of looking for solutions.

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A poor attitude is one that gets nasty and mean and pouts when it doesn’t get its way.

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A poor attitude is one that nobody of value wants to spend time around or even oblige.

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A poor attitude destroys the person who holds it even if they don’t know it.

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A good attitude? No matter how dull or bleak the situation, light is on the other side because it will make a way.

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A good attitude will get knocked down, even unfairly, but it will get back up, wear a smile and say, “I will try again.”

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A good attitude holds no grudges and places no blame, it just works and works and works until…

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Until it achieves and accomplishes and overcomes.

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My final word of advice. Stop hanging around people who hold a poor attitude! Its toxic for them and more-so for you. If it’s someone close to you, a family member or friend, let them know, in a loving and patient manner, until they check themselves or decide to destroy themselves.

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How they act isn’t your responsibility. You’re responsible for your own attitude and energy. Be an example. Hopefully, in the process, they realize their errors and correct them.

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